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Sometimes People Can't Handle Success

Sometimes people can't handle success – Satish Nair

“I tried 1000 different ways to find a solution, but 1001st was the best solution” – Thomas Alva Edison, when asked about his experience in inventing the light bulb.

The first question is “What is Success?” : The dictionaries provide various definitions of success as ‘an occurrence that accomplishes its intended purpose’ or ‘a state of prosperity or fame’ or ‘a realization that a person is successful’, but success is broader than what we define. Achieving success means you became famous; you can have enough money to buy the luxuries you longed for so many years, you are being a darling of the masses.

Anybody can achieve success, however for that one has to have the self belief within him that he can, this is the primary step towards success. If you do not believe in yourself, then creating that feeling is your first assignment. Secondly, we have to focus on what we are going to do to achieve success, something we already have and something we have to attain from others.

There are many factors that contribute to success or failure, the most important of which is a person's mindset. One can not create and sustain success, if his thoughts, beliefs and emotions are not adjusted to success. If one believes in oneself, money or what success means for them are in dissimilarity to a successful life, he finds it difficult or impossible to create one.

Some of the key factors for people, who want to be successful are determination, decisiveness, continuous learning, constructive planning, hard-work, relentless practice (regain the mettle even when things are going against his wishes), have to have the ability to recover and learn from failures. One requires a strong vision of his future, his planning; setting achievable goals all can play important roles in becoming successful.

There is no need to worry, If one does not have all the above characteristics, think success is not a heavenly fruit, as if one can only dream of it, everybody can achieve it with various techniques. One can set goals and objectives, which may be inherited qualities, however learning some advanced techniques for success, which can only be learned from schools/people. You have to develop mental strength to succeed, which will enable you to recover from setbacks more easily.

There is another side of this coin that lot many people, famous personalities, they can not handle the success suitably – can say success is an catastrophe for them – a bad experience. How to handle the success depends upon the person as an individual i.e. it is a very individual matter. To somebody success is an unexciting aspect, but to somebody it is an energizing factor to achieve more. We surprise when we hear news about famous people, who suffer from alcoholism, drug abuse and serious emotional problems, we see that success can bring different kinds of discomfort alongwith it. Diego Maradona, Mike Tyson, Princess Diana are perfect examples, facing serious problems when they are famous, as if people think they have everything, but suffered at different levels and they fee they are alone in the midst of fame.

First Example Diego Maradona. He is former caption of Argentine football team. He played in four World Cups, won a world cup in 1986, received FIFA Player of the Century and voted in 2000 by FIFA, the best football player of all time surpassing the great footballer ever PELE.

Since the 1990s, Maradona has been battling cocaine addiction, which included spells in Swiss and Cuban clinics. After retirement, Maradona spent most of his time in Cuba (can say in hospital), and after returning to Argentina suddently he suffered a major heart attack following a cocaine overdose and was admitted to intensive care in a Buenos Aires hospital. After he showed improvement, Maradona was taken off the respirator on April 23 and remained in intensive care for several days before being discharged.

Second example : Diana, Princes of Wales, from the time of her engagement to the Prince of Wales in 1981 until her death after a car accident in 1997, Diana was one of the most famous women in the world, a pre-eminent celebrity of her generation. During her lifetime, she was often described as the world's most photographed woman. To her admirers, the Princess of Wales was a role model; After her death, there were even calls for her to be nominated for sainthood, while her detractors, consider her to have been suffering from a mental illness; it has been suggested that Diana was, according to one biographer, possibly suffering from Borderline personality disorder. Diana herself admitted to struggling with depression, and the eating disorder bulimia, which recurred throughout her adult life.

Third Example is of Mike Tyson. At the height of his fame and career in the late 1980s and throughout the '90s, Tyson was one of the most recognized sports personalities in the world. Apart from his many sporting accomplishments, his outrageous and controversial behavior in the ring and in his private life as well as the drug and alcoholic abuses has kept him in the public eye than his career.

Tyson retired from competitive boxing in 2005. He has since engaged in a series of exhibition bouts in a tour across the US to pay his numerous debts. Despite receiving over US$30 million for several of his fights and $300 million over his career, Tyson declared bankrupt in 2003. now, Tyson appears in countless popular media in either cameo appearances or as a subject of parody or satire.

So why these people addicted to drugs, alcohol and suffering from various disorders? And the answer is “Sometimes people can't handle success” the reasons may be they fear the success and self sabotage their lives, that's what happened to Maradona, Mike Tyson and Princes Diana, there were throwing the fame away. No one has been able to break through this massive self sabotage. No wonder that people are afraid of success. To achieve success means need of a lot of self-examination along with chances in lifestyle and facelift of our behaviors.

We are NOT just talking about some personalities here; we are talking about every successful people, including you. Success is like a hard rock, not everybody is able to crack or pull it down easily. Chances are that anybody who tasted the success in any field can face such problems at any moment of time; it is not a fault of us, but a phenomenon people around the world face.

Satisfaction is an important ingredient of success. For becoming successful, you have to learn to get satisfied. This often means giving up wanting and longing, two feelings that don't go with satisfaction.

Let us hope we will not be addicted to the drugs and alcohol like Maradona did, but almost everyone is limiting his lives because part of him is afraid of success. If it applies to us, then we should retrospect that what receding factors and soul searching to know what pulled us back, so that we can rectify the wrongs and find the rights.

Success requires discipline, determination and a strong belief in oneself. It's a whole lot easier to stay where you are than to move into a new state of being.

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How can I really make his eyes pop out of his head!!?

ok so I've got this new fella and he's really hot!! The last guy I was with I was with for 5 years and we fell out of love and stopped having sex a LONG time ago. I was so nervous with this new guy cos I was starting to think it's been so long they might have changed it!! He's a typically easily pleased man who can go all night if I can handle it!! Thing is I'm fully aware he wasn't exactly a virgin before me and I know I've defined myself from the others personality wise but I wanna keep all eyes on me and most of all leave is heart racing and skin tingling!! c'mon guys and gals make his day!!!! xxx

Why don't you wear something that is out of this world.
Why not a dress with a plunging necline. Your breasts are falling out.
And make the hemline as short as possible.

And be a flirt. A tease.

I am not talking about bed and making love. Not yet anyways. O.K.

Once in the bedroom strip tease for him so so slowly.

Strat kissing him her ther at times. Remember you are still teasing him.
Hopefully you are making him very very excited.
Go down and rub him gentley down there and let him touch you for those 2 c or 3 secs. then push his hand away.
You are in control.
Understand!!!!

You are in bed now foreplay him put him in your mouth and pleasure him slowly stopping halfway down licking and sucking him.

Then let him do you slowly stopping him half way tease him even more.

Then you are both ready for the intercourse act. Laugh and joke as you are teasing and flirting with him in a sexy way. Can you do that???

Back to the making love Do a different position!!!!
Do Doggie Style....Remember you are in control make it last.

Get on your knees and frearms elbows your boyfriend is behind you. He penertrates his erection inside of you. You move your bum up and down do not let him go inside of you right away. Again tease him.
Laugh Put humour into your love making. Make your eyes glow and jump in your head. Can you do that?

After teasing him for 5 - 10 mins. let him go all the way inside of you.
While making love you help him.
Move your bum up and down meet his stroking his thrusting.
Squeeze your vaginal muscles around hie erction tight then loosen your grip then tight and so on.
After a while you both have to release.
You will be orgasmings after orgasms and your boyfriend has to ejaculate his semen deep inside of you.

Hope that works for both of you!!!!

Please write and tell me how it went.

GOOD LUCK!!!!
E mail address.....laureyjoyallman

Laurey.

P.S. When your boyfriend is behind you making love to you maybe!!!!! just maybe!!!! he can spank you on your bum!!!! Would you like that???

Please write. Thanks.

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